Living With Herpes

Living A Life With Herpes


Herpes is a word that makes your world turn upside down. You have to learn to live with it because there is no cure for herpes. There would be some changes on your lifestyle and your outlook towards life. You may feel some degrees of fatigue, anxiety, and stress in any way can complicate the management of the virus. In some means, both oral herpes and genital herpes will have a reason to make you nervous as both are caused by a disease that once it enters your body and it will certainly not leave. With enough knowledge and awareness, you can live life happily with this infection. Here are some basic some basic knowledge, education and awareness that people with genital herpes can feel more at peace with the situation and in control with the disease, avoid spreading it elsewhere on the body, inhibit family members from catching it, and importantly lower the risk of transferring the infection to their partner. 


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Some Basic Facts about Herpes 


Herpes has 2 types called the Herpes Simplex 1 (oral) and the Herpes Simplex 2 (genital). Oral Herpes means sores appear around the mouth and lips (sometimes referred to as fever blisters or cold sores). Oral herpes can cause genital herpes, but most cases of genital herpes are caused by herpes type 2. In genital herpes, the disease-ridden person may have sores around the genitals or anus. Though genital herpes lesions may occur in other places, these blisters are usually found below the waist area.


Living With Herpes



Herpes is a virus that moves into the body and lives inside the specific area of the nerves cell and lives there forever.


Herpes is a common sexually transmitted disease (STD) that any sexually active person can get 


Herpes outbreaks can last approximately up to 10 days.  


Herpes virus can be spread even if the infected person has no signs and symptoms. You should always use condoms or practice safe sex all time. 


Herpes epidemics vary in occurrence and strength as these viruses occur especially when your immune system is at its weakest. Some people can live with the virus and under no circumstances have an outbreak, while others have recurrent, painful and severe attacks of blisters and sores.  


Herpes can be passed on through close bodily contact. It does not travel on the air or live long on non-living objects.  Oral herpes can be spread through kissing, touching or sharing stuffs that go into the mouth, such as toothbrushes or kitchen utensils. On the other hand, genital herpes is transmitted through sexual contact through oral, anal or vaginal.  


Herpes can be prevented or lessened with medications. There are prescription drugs that if taken immediately at the first sign of an outbreak, can cut or eliminate the signs and symptoms. 


Treatment for Herpes 


Home treatments can be done on the first sting or bump that indicates an outbreak, immediately take an aspirin and apply ice or cold compress on the infected area. Otherwise, prescription drugs such as Valtrex or Acyclovir are effective if taken within the first 12-24 hours of an outbreak, you can also use skin treatment creams for oral herpes.  For genital herpes it is best to abstain from sex or use condoms from the first signs of an outbreak until the sores will be cleared.  


A doctor once said that “herpes is not a death sentence, it is an annoying medical issue, to be sure, but it can be dealt with. Herpes does not cause cervical cancer or any form of malignancy. Stress less – and you’ll be healthier, all around.” So, there is no need to worry about herpes, live and enjoy life to the fullest. 


Herpes Dating And Sex


Learning that you have the herpes infection can be so devastating and the dating game is over. This creates anxiety and wonder if you will find love again?

Yes, it is right for herpes dating with herpes after the diagnosed can be very stressful. You might be worried that you will be judged with your condition, your partner maybe scared that you will be infecting him or her with an incurable disease and how will you be able to face the world and continue the life that you have. You can always search and look for love online or herpes online dating websites. Acceptance is not difficult since both of you have herpes and understand the condition about herpes. You won’t have to deal with being rejected for herpes.


On Dating
Knowing that you have herpes is very difficult to cope up. How will you be able to face the world again with the disease that you are suffering? Always remember that you only have the disease and it is not who you are. People just don’t go to a date just to have a sexual intercourse. You date because you like someone or like each other, you have the same interest and likes, and find that someone attractive. If you are into each other and you like someone enough then herpes won’t be a big deal. You will find means to work and sort things out. It something that you and your partner will talk about. Genital herpes is a very embarrassing and frightening diagnosis for may people since, most in our society is misinformed or not educated about herpes. There are many people out there living with herpes and it is not that easy. Bear in mind that you can still date and fall in love because herpes is a disease like any other and having it is not the end of the world. You can search online for herpes dating websites and create your profile for a chance to meet and find a partner if you are being rejected on the one that you are now dating with.

It is best to be upfront, honest and disclose to your partner about herpes prior to engaging in any sexual intercourse because if you will tell him or her after the deed then he or she may think of it as a betrayal. If you really love someone then be honest so both of you can find ways and means to prevent the infection from spreading and how to handle if there will be any outbreaks of herpes. Anyway if he is she really loves you then having herpes will never be an issue and will not affect your relationship.


On Having Sex
Having sex is very important in every relationship. Having herpes and your sexual activity is not a problem at all. You can still enjoy and have a fulfilling sex life. Although it may be more complicated than before without being diagnosed with herpes. There are things that you will remember prior to having sex. During outbreaks of herpes or if you feel that herpes is coming avoid any sexual activity (vaginal, anal or oral sex). In between outbreaks it is okay to have sex for as long as both of you understand the risks. You can do oral sex on your partner as long as you don’t have sores on your mouth or on the genitals of your partner. Mutual masturbation can also be done during outbreaks and practice good personal hygiene. You can use dildos of sex toys if your partner likes it but make sure to wash it before and after using it. Please do not share sex toys. Use condom or dental dams as much a possible to prevent the spread of any infection. You can always seek the advice of a health care professional if you are unsure of you and your partner’s safety on herpes dating outbreaks.








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